Save the Letter!

letter

Sometimes you just have to say, I’m going to give this a shot!

Several months ago, I was surfing, looking for At-Home business ideas that might involve writing. I stumbled across an article on businessknowhow.com about writing letters from Santa to children as a small, home-based business. Santa needs ghost writers…Who knew? I thought this sounded like a fun idea, so I started doing some research.

After several months,  St. Nick’s Secretary has been launched. (I have to give my husband credit for the name!) It gives me a chance to do a little writing, have a little fun, and perhaps to make a little money. (fingers crossed) So, it is official–and open for business. Click on the button to the right if you want to take a look. If it makes some children smile, I will be really happy.

Letter writing. With paper and pen.

It seems to be an art that is slowly dying, and I don’t want to see it go! I have to blame technology, to a degree, and our fast-paced, instantly-gratified way of living. But that doesn’t mean that letter writing has to disappear! Even taking five minutes to dash off a quick notecard to let someone know you were thinking about them or to thank someone for a favor is taking a stand against the death of the letter.

Here are some tips to make it easier:

  • Gather a letter writing kit in a decorated shoebox or cute basket.
  • Include:  Address book, stamps, return address labels or stamp, box(es) of note cards, pens, a few envelopes, and a pad of stationery (or plain paper–or lined paper, if you are worried about neatness)
  • Keep an ongoing list in the basket of people you would like to write or send a card to. Update the list often!
  • Set a time–once a week or two, maybe on payday or the day you put Frontline on your dog. If you schedule the time, you might actually do it!
  • Be realistic. Write only one or two letters or cards at a time.
  • Get totally over being a perfectionist. Nobody cares if your handwriting is printed. It just needs to be legible. And nobody cares if the lines are a little wavy.
  • Do not get up from the table or desk until the envelope is addressed and stamped. Otherwise, if you are like me, you will find it three weeks later, tucked into your calendar. You will think it too out-dated to send. And you probably will not do a re-write. I speak from experience. :) Sad, but true.
  • Walk it to the mailbox. And here’s the crucial last step:  Put it in the box and raise the flag. If you put it in your purse to take to work or wherever, you might remember it, but maybe not.

Your note might just be the pick-me-up that someone else needed! You do have time. If something is important, we make time for it. This is a way to reach out and touch someone–and you do not need a modem. Please join me when I say:

Save the letter!

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Sparkling Clean

Glad I don't have to do this!

Glad I don't have to do this! (photo by Francois Schnell)

My neighbor’s house across the street always looks clean. (Inside, too.) My home seems to suffer by comparison…But one thing I notice immediately is how clean Mary’s windows are. No bird droppings, no oily hand prints, and no dog-nose smudges. And no screens! I think the “no screens” thing is the main reason her windows are so pristine. (I like you in spite of your neat and sparkly house, Mary.)

Windows aren’t my only problem. I tend to let things go for a while, and then I go totally berserk, spinning madly into a cleaning frenzy. My house is approaching the point of no return, so a frenzy is imminent. It’s Do or Die; Now or Never…You get my point. (What would the FlyLady say? You don’t know the FlyLady? Check her out at www.flylady.net. Lots of tips, lists, and encouragement.)

I’m getting a late start today, but the time has come. Watch out dirt, dog hair, dust bunnies, and smudged windows. Your days are numbered. I need a plan–and lots of energy. And this time, I’ll remember the windows.

It’s kind of messy for your hands, but try newspaper instead of a roll of paper towels when cleaning windows and mirrors. It really adds some sparkle! I’ve heard of using vinegar and warm water as a quick, good, homemade solution. I might try that over Windex. We’ll see…What’s your best cleaning solution for glass?

Wish me luck. It’s a jungle in here.

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Under Wraps

How many times have I given MUCH thought (and sometimes money and time) as to what gift to give, only to stick it in a $5 (yikes!) gift bag for the actual giving? More times than I would like to admit…

My good friend and domestic guru Jill (She needs her own website!) always makes her gift wrapping look as special and thoughtful as the gift she gives. So, when I gave her a birthday gift, I felt the pressure to be creative in the wrapping. Here is the gift–and how I gave it to her.

Domesticity Book

Domesticity Book

Domestic Wrapping

Domestic Wrapping

I used a piece of fabric that I had left-over from a project and some stray ribbon. I pinked the edges of the fabric and wrapped the book without a single piece of tape. The best part is that I didn’t spend any money on a sad, little gift bag. An added bonus:  It was quick! (I admit, the bow is a little…little. But that was the end of my ribbon scrap, and I actually like the “understated look”. ha.)

I think she loved the wrapping–and I know she loved the book! I’ll bet that little piece of fabric gets used in a project, too.

A few other wrapping ideas:

  • Brown paper packages, tied up with string (yes, one of my favorite things)
  • Cellophane. It comes on a roll. Look for it at dollar stores. Cut a big square, place gift on top, and gather the edges up. Tie on a ribbon. It makes anything look more special!
  • Use colorful comic strips for birthday gifts.
  • Use a part of the gift. For example, wrap a friend’s birthday gift in a colorful scarf. Two gifts in one package!
  • Stock up on $1 bandannas. They come in every color and make great, reusable giftwrap. With ribbon, of course.
  • Stock up on wire-edged ribbon. Sam’s Club and Costco both carry huge spools of ribbon (mostly Christmas) for around $10. This ribbon is so easy to work with. If you think you can’t make the “perfect” bow, this ribbon will make you think again. Use it with cellophane, brown paper, or just with a naked gift!
  • Wrap a box and lid separately. Do not tape the lid to the bottom! This box will be used again and again. Scrap wallpaper, because of it’s weight and durability,  is the perfect covering for this box.
  • Baskets, plastic bins, almost anything can be used. Simply adding a beautiful ribbon or raffia pom make the package special.

Next time you give a gift, don’t let your thoughtfulness end at the store. Make an extra effort to wrap creatively!

What are your creative (and maybe cheap frugal) ideas for gift wrapping?

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Cabinet Complete!

I LOVE the difference a coat (or three) of paint can make! Here is the BEFORE again of the cabinet we bought for our daughter’s clothing (a chest of drawers just couldn’t cut it!):

Grey cabinet BEFORE the facelift

Grey cabinet BEFORE the facelift

And here is the AFTER:

Finished project--cabinet painted Heirloom White

Finished project--cabinet painted Heirloom White

The only “antique” parts of this cabinet are the hardware (which I didn’t touch) and the doors (which the cabinet builder had already painted, thus relieving me of any guilt I might feel about painting old paint). My daughter wisely picked Rustoleum’s Heirloom White paint. It is beautiful and oh-so-smooth to the touch (quite unlike the flat grey housepaint which had been on the cabinet.)

Antique spring latch

Antique spring latch

Antique hinge

Antique hinge

One if-I-had-to-do-it-again: I should have primed the cabinet. It took three coats of a good quality paint to cover the dark gray and a lot of time. (I slacked on the inside. Only one coat to make the shelves smooth and a little brighter.) I think a good primer would have made a third coat unnecessary. Also, there are a lot of nooks and crannies and hard-to-reach spots in this type of furniture. It is NOT a quick job. But well worth the time, I think!

ALL of her clothes fit–even the hooded sweatshirts! How many almost-15-year-old girls can actually put away all of their laundry?

The best part? She loves it!

Cabinet--Loaded

Cabinet--Loaded

The girl LOVES her socks!

The girl LOVES her socks!



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Antiques for Regular People

photo by Paul Keleher

photo by Paul Keleher

Good morning, Company Girl Coffee Drinkers! Long time, no see..It’s been a pretty busy 6 weeks around my house, but my parents have moved safely to their wonderful new home, and now life around here is somewhat back to normal (whatever that is!) So, enjoy your coffee, and I’ll see you on your blog. Happy Friday! :)

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What I know about antiques could probably fill a small thimble: Rules such as “look for dove-tailed drawers” and “don’t strip old paint unless you are SURE it doesn’t give value to the piece.” Most of all, I just know what I like. I like old stuff–smooth, worn wood, aged metal, wavy glass, softly faded fabrics. Things from a different time. Things that tell stories. And I never go into antique shops that have thousand dollar price tags. I would hate to have to worry about whether something is really “that valuable” or not. I am a regular person.

Going into antique shops can be intimidating if you can’t get past the feelings of inadequacy. It is fun and liberating to admit knowing little and only buying what I like because I just like it–not because it is worth money. It is with that mind-set that I trot merrily (and blissfully unaware) into treasure shops. Most owners do not seem to be snooty about shoppers. Most owners seem genuinely happy to answer questions. In fact, if you are open to learning, most will gladly spend time sharing their knowledge with you, even–get this–if you don’t buy anything!

I used to be a reluctant antique shopper, not sure if I needed to pretend to know more than I did. And not sure how to go about that anyway. Through practice and observation, I have learned a few tips and questions that have never gotten a bad response. If your intent is honest and your demeanor is pleasant, it will all be fine. Next time you see an antique shop for regular people (not the hoity toity), just walk right in and do these things:

  • Greet the owner or clerk with a smile.
  • Be careful not to hit things with your pocketbook. (Many shops are packed with treasures that are displayed in precarious positions.) Try a messenger-style bag.
  • If the owner isn’t too busy, ask about things you are truly interested in. For example, I saw a bunch of canes with bright hand grips in a barrel. When asked, the owner told me about carnival canes–the prizes given out at carnivals in the ’40s and ’50s. I had no idea! I did not want to buy them, but I was genuinely interested in learning what they were. Sometimes you can discover the origin of a piece in asking. Again, let the owner share his or her knowledge.
  • If you really want to buy something, do not insult the owner by offering nothing. If you do not have an idea, just ask what their best price is. Usually, there is some cushion built in to the price. If not, they will let you know.
  • Unless you are really educated about antiques, just look for what you like. (Even if you do know about antiques, this is a good rule to follow.)
    When you leave, say thank you to the owner. This is a small courtesy that many people do not extend today. Most shop owners really appreciate good manners–even if you did not buy anything.

Most of all, just be nice. That almost always puts others at ease. Then, you can get down to the fun stuff–finding the perfect old thing for your regular house!

Here are some wonderful things we saw–and one that we purchased! More on that later…

LOVE this color

LOVE this color

Ever play Jenga?...I was tempted...

Ever play Jenga?...I was tempted...

Wish I had...Might go back for this mini-bowling set. Again, the colors!!!

Wish I had...Might go back for this mini-bowling set. Again, the colors!!!

Not old, but still fun

Not old, but still fun

Part-antique: Old doors, cabinet built with old wood around the doors.

Part-antique: Old doors, cabinet built with old wood around the doors.

The grey cabinet is in my daughter’s room now. It provides much-needed clothing storage. We decided grey was not us (it was not old paint), so it is now different, and we love it! I’ll show the transformation another day…Did I mention I got a GREAT deal? :)

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Simply Friday Coffee

Good morning afternoon! Hope your coffee is delicious.

Coffee Mug

Coffee Mug

I have been missing in action–due to life. Sound familiar? The biggest project for me (and my siblings) has been helping to organize and pack my parents’ belongings (actually, a fraction of them), to move from their current home to a new one. The new home is in a city they know, having moved from there 32 years ago. So, it is kind of  “back home”, though it is very different.

The packing, or rather, the feeling overwhelmed at the packing, had me thinking about organization; more specifically, staying on top of it all. I have no intention of bad-mouthing two of the best, kindest, most-loving people I know, but may I just say Oh, my GOODNESS! These people are everything good you could ask for, but 1/2 of them have never been organized (sorry, Daddy) and the other 1/2 (Mother), I believe, just got tired of the battle (not with him–with the stuff.)

Yes, it is genetic. At least, for me, it is. I stack and become indecisive and keep and pile until I absolutely cannot take it any more. But after seeing all that we have done and understanding what still has to be done there, I realized that this is how many of us are…Then, life happens, sometimes quickly. Health changes, jobs change, life changes–and suddenly, we have to move. Things have to be sorted, packed, painted, fixed, and sold.

Messy Table

Messy Table--How does this happen so fast?

If only they had stayed on top of it…If only I had  stayed on top of it…

So, here’s a little advice that I am trying to give myself. If you get something from it, it’s even better:

  • Pitch and purge stacks at least once a week.
  • If something needs action, take it–now. Send the email; make the phone call. (That reminds me to make my hair appointment today.)
  • Curb spending. Enough, already! Don’t bring it into the house if it is impulsive or just not necessary.
  • Start with one closet (or one room) and go from there.
  • Donate what you can. Or have a sale, if you’d rather. (You might think about giving away a part of the proceeds. It feels really good! :) )
  • Maintain what you have. That means cleaning, painting, fixing as it comes. Budget monthly for this!
  • Simplify. And be content with what you have. (Of course, I mean ME.)

Now, good luck with your mess…I’m off to organize and simplify. And maybe an afternoon cup of coffee! (Sounds a little wicked, but I’m good with it!)

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Remember to Laugh!

I had a great childhood. Big, loud family, happy home, and lots of laughter. I was thinking about how this made our house a fun place for us and for everybody else, too! It wasn’t mean-spirited (usually :) ); it just WAS. And it made for a great way to grow up.

Though it has nothing to do with visual decor, laughter is an amazing way to bring folks together and to make everyone feel all cozy inside. So, today, instead of trying to make my house cozy-looking, I’m going for the feel.

With two teenagers, there is a lot to laugh about. Parents (myself, included) need to remember that. Laughter is good for the soul–and for the family. It provides some sort of chemical release (I am positive there is some expensive study out there to prove that!) that just makes the world and my own home a much better place to be. I also think it opens our hearts just a little, and with an open heart, great things can happen!

Today, let’s find some humor in the every day. This is a short bit that came to me a few years ago via email. If you can listen to this without chuckling aloud, I would be shocked. I listen to it occasionally, when I need a quick laugh. Hope you enjoy it as much as I do!

mp3 Funny Voice Mail

May your coffee be hot and your laughter be genuine, fellow Company Girls! Happy Friday!


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LinkWithin–My Editor

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I added a cool plugin today (LinkWithin), and I must confess, was feeling sort of glowy and tingly with my accomplishment, when I discovered that I had already written a post about decoupage! Am I disorganized, flaky, or what? I think I need to keep a running list of topics, and work a little harder to be ORIGINAL. Please forgive…It is interesting (to me) to see the two different ways I wrote the same thing.

So, you might give LinkWithin a try. At the very least, it will keep you honest.

The photo, above, is from a Flickr stream. I have attempted to give the photographer credit. (It has a Creative Commons license.) Another cool thing I have learned…that you probably already knew:  There are lots of photos available for your free use, as long as proper credit is given.

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Company Girl Coffee

Fiesta_JumboCup_Plum_mInviting a friend over is a good thing, but if you are like me, you feel like you have to work your tail off to have everything perfect before you pick up the phone.

This is crazy. And it REALLY cuts down on my social life. Honestly, if I waited til my house was clean, completely decorated, and perfect with the aroma of baked-from-scratch banana bread, I’d never see anybody!

The idea of having a cozy home has little to do with perfection and everything to do with relaxed and welcoming. Don’t get me wrong. I get a major thrill out of a beautiful room, wrapped in gorgeous fabric, with no dog hair in sight. But it’s just not reality. At least, it’s not my reality. Besides, I’d rather see my friends.

So, here’s to friends! Friends who don’t see the dust, the sewing machine in the corner, the stack of mail, or the dog nose prints on the glass doors.

How about a cup of coffee? If you’re lucky, there might be Little Debbie Pecan Twirls.

Thanks for the coffee, Rachel Anne!

***Remembering the innocent victims of the September 11, 2001, terrorist attacks. Praying for their families and friends.***


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Decoupage Anything!

Decoupaged Tray

Decoupaged tray with photos

Two words:  Mod Podge

Mod Podge miracle

Mod Podge miracle

This little project is a simple, inexpensive idea to be used in your own home or as a gift. The tray pictured is on my own kitchen counter, but I actually made one for each of my four siblings and their families.

Since my family is a bit large for full-blown Christmas shopping, my siblings and I decided a few years ago to quit buying gifts for each other, spouses, and grown children. However, we do still send each other a little something, usually–wine, pictures, cookies, wine…You get the idea. You can’t go wrong with the wine thing, but I wanted to do something a bit different.

I bought a bunch of these simple, golden trays at Old Time Pottery.  I believe they were $7 each. After finding the trays, all I had to do was gather pictures of each, individual family, arrange them in some pleasing sort of way, and go to town with the Mod Podge. This decoupage medium acts as a glue and sealer. This whole bottle cost $6 and contains enough Mod Podge to glue and seal a small house. Add a $.39 foam brush, and you are set to go.

First, clean the tray and arrange pictures, postcards, dried flowers, pretty paper, etc. on your tray. Overlapping is fine and adds a nice touch, as long as the objects do not become too bulky. I decided to only use pictures, with no other embellishments but later wished I had added more. Just because I like more.

Next, carefully coat the back of each picture or object with a coat of Mod Podge. You will want to cover the entire surface of the back of the object. Place objects back on the tray, one by one in desired format, working from bottom layer out.

Allow objects to dry for a few minutes. Then, coat the entire surface with a generous, but not too thick, coat of Mod Podge. (It goes on milky but dries clear.) Let dry several minutes. Depending upon how the tray (in this case) will be used, add additional coats, to protect the surface. These trays have three coats of the medium.

Don’t get stuck on the tray idea. Make a memory box, plaque, plate, shelf, table top, etc. Use your own creativity to make something unique–for yourself or for someone else!

Forgive the flash!

Forgive the flash!


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